WHERE'S THE GAY GUY? |
I could not attend the entire session because I have other responsibilities concerning the mini-symposium about which I have been writing lately. I did sit there a bit and I did make myself present at the end. This was easy because all the other sessions had closed down and this one was still going. It had been going for about 2 hours and the people were still there, listening, making comments, and behold, so intently engaged, and so polite and gentle to one another and to the priest/leader of the exchanges. As the session wound down I went to the front of the group and since there were many there who did not really know me, I introduced myself. I said that I was sincerely happy to have been able to make this meeting happen and that I hoped that God would make their spiritual life at our church a fruitful one. As I was speaking I noticed that many of them were people whom I know and who know me. They were so happy to see me. Five or six of them came to me before leaving to hug me and thank me for having the courage to make something like this happen. I was surprised at the depth of their sincerity and their evident gratitude. They were all wearing their emotions on their sleeves.
The crowning came when I was alone with the priest who then told me that he did not believe his eyes when he walked into the room and beheld about 30 people in attendance. He had come in the expectation of seeing some 5 or 6. He could not contain his euphoria all the way back to his auto. As he crouched to get into his vehicle, all he could find to say was, "I have to hope that the English speaking group scheduled for tomorrow night will be as numerous and as spiritually awake as this Hispanic group is."
Dear readers, please pray for us. Many of us, I repeat, many of us, are in uncharted waters here. All we have is the certainty that God wants us here. Ask Him to give us the strength to help Him with these Ninivites without His having to carry us there in the belly of a whale.
Dear Readers:
ReplyDeleteYou all got this email from me:
You are making history with me today. I have had some contact with homosexual people. Starting with my Godfather. I had a wonderfully alive and vivacious homosexual friend in El Cajon, CA. His mother thought the sun rose and set on me for befriending her beloved "different" son. I've had homosexual men and women colleagues at work and never felt any discriminatory agida toward any of them. Tonight though, was a first. I organized a church meeting wherein teachings of the Catholic Church would be explained to families with homosexual members. (I was not the leader. I'm not smart enough for that yet) It was for the Hispanic Community of our parish. Tomorrow is for the English speaking people. You can read about the first meeting here. I'll let you know what happens after the second one.
I'm either getting brave or I'm so old that I am not afraid to be reckless.
Next comment for a friend's comeback.
Mila Asperin to me:
ReplyDeletePaul, you are not getting old, or growing braver...the subject in question is being addressed in most places where people gather for thoughtful discussions. What is critical is to address it from different perspectives such as: parents, person in question, and workplace culture developers. I think it gets very risky when audienes are not pre screened as such. Opens a can of worms, as you know. Discipline in the presenter is critical to insure "all the worms get back in the can"- so to speak.
Good luck with your presenter and audience this evening. Keep me posted on developments.
Take care.
Mila